Oct. 26, 2023

Happy Birthday & Hippity Hop

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Happy Birthday & Hippity Hop

RHONY S14 E14 Season Finale

In The Real Housewives of New York City Season 14, Episode 14, several confrontations and emotional moments take place among the cast. Erin and Ubah bond over bumper cars, discussing Erin's interactions with Pavitt. Brynn and Sai honor Brynn's late mother by choosing a tree in Central Park. Jessel is working on a photo shoot for her e-commerce platform and confides in Ubah about drama with Erin and Sai. Erin and Sai discuss Jessel, and Erin and Jessel have a heated conversation about Erin's alleged criticism of Jessel's husband. Ultimately, the tension is diffused with laughter, and everyone comes together, though some secrets are revealed that lead to further conflicts.


RHOSLC S4 E7

Angie hosts a Greek Easter party with invites delivered by an Easter Bunny. Whitney and Justin go on a date, discussing their relationship struggles, and Whitney's need for validation. Lisa makes candles with Angie, revealing that someone else knew about Jack's mission before her. They talk about inviting Monica, but Angie has reservations due to Monica's comments about her husband. Mary talks with her son, who reveals he's married, leaving her in tears. Heather learns about Jack's mission, and Meredith attends the GLAD awards instead of Angie's event. At the party, Lisa and Heather discuss their issues, while Angie confronts Monica about repeating rumors. A heated exchange ensues between Monica and Angie, involving Monica's mom, and she leaves the party, reflecting on her parenting.


Southern Charm S9 E6

Madison visits Craig and Paige, sharing Whitney's claim about Taylor sending nude photos. Austen discusses his relationship issues with his parents and reveals he's seeing a therapist, while Shep's dog, Craig, falls ill. JT shows his event space to his mother, expressing his concerns about being single at 38. Patricia video chats with her former butler Michael, who teaches her to make a martini. Leva contacts Olivia for dinner plans, but they learn of Connor's passing, leading to an emotional gathering at Venita's house, with support from Taylor and a therapy session for Austen to navigate his fears and support Olivia.



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Welcome to we wine whenever I'm Wendy I'm Kelly and I'm Lori so here we are
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tonight it's actually night time because we went to the Women's Expo in rton center today MH and let's talk about it
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a little bit we usually do meet at night you know too usually meet at night I meant to bring all of the cards of the
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lovely people that we met today and I forgot because wanted to mention their businesses going we will definitely do
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that and hopefully we have some future guests and I thought that today was a
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success I thought it was nice because I loved really seeing all the different
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women in business yeah and I think it's nice to have to do business with other
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local women you know and I think that that's something that definitely I look I've always looked forward to getting to
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that point where we were going to really get out out there and make connections with you know local businesses people
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around you know yeah it was no it was great it was so crowded too it was very
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crowded which was nice yeah it was nice there was a lot of people there we made some really good connections we saw a
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couple speakers we saw Lonnie Love yeah and I really like the speaker that I heard some of from afar who was giving
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um a discussion on like um domestic violence and you know preventing sexual
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assault and oh I didn't hear that yeah he was on right after um Lauren Lauren
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Santino that's what that gentleman was talking about yeah so and everybody got up and left well you know what they
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shouldn't do the talks back to back you got was one right after another after another after another and we had just
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sat for two and we still had some networking to get done yeah and I think L leave I mean we had been there for
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hours they put the two people next to each other that they should have separated yeah because you don't you
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wanted to listen to those those two people so you sat there for the two and then you're like all right I'm out I got stuff to do yeah you know what I'm
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saying like if you would yeah if you would have spaced it out we could have sat there and listened to that that we
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yeah but but what I'm saying is I thought that it was nice representation sure to have that there I think that um
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uh vendors in the future FYI for you if you can set up like a photob bomb spot
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you'll be getting peeps because there was lines yeah for those on the on the
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businesses that we're representing with photo ops a photo op yeah it's such
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a great marketing thing yeah absolutely defitely it really is cuz people love it
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yeah I mean like I saw people standing like older ladies oh yeah like you know in their 70s wanting to get in you know
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with their picture yeah that's so Lori and I got some scented hair oil yes we did some anti- frzz scented hair o we
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only wash our hair once or twice a yes yes so do I yes cuz we all have wild
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hair yes absolutely we got a lot of hair there's a lot of hair we wine whenever
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has a lot of hair for all broads that's for sure yeah you know we got some hair
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so we got that what else did we get oh we got the um oh that dip with the aago cheese we
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got that we'll be having that during our break but we'll but we'll put all this out there so that these local businesses
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can get some props because it was it was very fun yes well and you know it was our first venture out as a business yeah
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you know going out and interacting with people in the three of us as a business
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yes yes and I and we're friends we're used to interacting friends yeah and I was telling Eric how she said people no
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don't let people tell you who you are you know who you are people like to tell me I'm fat I'm not fat I'm full that
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Isen amen Lonnie Love I'm full too me too let me tell you something
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my parents were married for over 50 years and my mom passed but my father my
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mother was a she was a full figure gal you know and my father was always
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like you know you're you're rubenesque baby you're pleasantly plump yeah he was
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always like you good you know well I know my weight gain doesn't bother eror cuz that
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guy is constantly trying to feed me so it doesn't bother my husband either I
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mean like I've said before I don't really care about food but Bill does and he's also always trying to feed me too
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Bill's trying to feed the whole neighborhood he yeah I mean he's trying to feed the world to be quite honest with you yes Bill wants to feed the
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world and I need no help from anyone in feeding myself I just do it all myself
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yeah if I see it and it looks good I'mma eat it yeah cuz for sure I just like it
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some people just anas were good today and I got that mac and cheese I got mac
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and cheese with pulled pork it good and then like diced crispy
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scallions oh was so good that looked good I'm going to shout out to that girl yeah okay I got to figure out which one
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she was yeah and then we heard Lauren Santino Mike The Situation wife who I'll
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be honest with you I have watched Jersey Shore since the beginning I wasn't a big fan of hers before today because a
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couple of episodes she kind of came off a little Upp like when she was when she
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was when they were on the one vacation and she was snapping to get the waitress's attention I didn't love that
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yeah that's not a good it's not that's never a cool move it wasn't no but that's not who she is you know what we all have bad moments right you know well
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she said growing up she they went to some country club or whatever and that's how they got people's attention so if
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that's what she grew up that oh yeah so she's totally different than that Jersey short gang she's not but she yeah no it
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wasn't like that um but she talked about her past and you know I I had no idea
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that she worked in the fashion industry and how accomplished she was neither did I in her own career before marrying Mike
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and that she I I knew she and Mike had dated I think before they dated uh a
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short time before they started the before he started the show they met in college yeah they met in college and
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then he went and did the show but then they wind up getting back together when he you know but uh I liked her a lot
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after hearing her speak and hearing about her her background I just got to
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say a shout out to New Jersey today cuz when that lady the first lady that when
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she was singing we did not do a bed I thought the same thing we were like
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asked everyone her time and we were like well just so you know I videotape that
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so I will put that up I have I have the whole audience singing nice Us New
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Jersey yeah everybody sounded good yeah I have video unhidden Talent of Jersey showed up as a Women's Expo today that's
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right and I love how she just invited herself the hidden talent I just started
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drinking yeah I love how she invited herself to Teresa's wedding oh yeah
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that's she told us that forgot about that and I watched it awesome I watched it I watched it cuz I could just picture
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the she could probably have a whole comedy routine just off that event absolutely she was very gracious about
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it but you know she wanted to be like she touched on the
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hair yeah so another thing I wanted to talk about is last week I went to go see
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Joe gorg's comedy show in Princeton yes I went with my girlfriend geryn um it was in Princeton it was at
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the Laugh Factory I think it's called whatever it's called it was at a hotel
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in Princeton it was was a very odd setup I'm just going to say that I've been to many comedy shows before they're usually
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like dark and like little tables there's a table This was um an
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Italian buffet dinner with big banquet tables in a banquet hall very well lit
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you know middle something was bothering me about your pictures that you and the things the video that you posted I was
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like this does not look like anything to do with comedy like this looks like I'm at like somebody's like Bar Mitzvah Bar
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Mitzvah like it was but it was it was a you know it was like a it was a reception hall is what it was that's
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sound it sounds like a wedding it was a reception hall it was a reception hall it was a little kind of anytime Italians
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do anything it is kind of like yeah but not no I would like it I would
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like it dark like yeah yeah it was a little odd so there was three comedians the first ComEd comian I don't remember
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her name she was a female she um was best known for she's done other stuff
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like um I think in I think she was the announcer yes she was the announcer for
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Magic Mike in Las Vegas oh but honestly she wasn't funny oh she wasn't funny and
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I'm I'm the one who loves female comedians I I want uh I want them to succeed because that's not an easy thing
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it's not easy but she wasn't funny and then the next one was Mike Marino who really is a comedian I like him and I
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like him too he was funny of the of the three fun that skit that he did make America Italian again yeah no he's funny
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I mean he's just he's very funny but wait a second how do you how do you do that like how do you was anybody
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laughing at the lady's jokes no and she kind of she kind of knew too like how
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but how do you get there you don't have one person in your life that you tell you jokes to and they're like girl
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you're not funny like no you know maybe she was having an off night no you know what it is I think she's from she's from
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California so she's a West Coast girl so West Coast jokes and East Coast jokes two different things two different
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things she didn't she didn't really know her audience I felt I like you know like we Mike Marino he knows his audience
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like he's a Jersey Boy this is his audience so he's going to resonate in Jersey and if you looked in if you
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looked around that's the other thing the people the people that were watching the show now I won I won a ticket I won a
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free ticket um to see the show and then my girlfriend and I we bought another ticket and we split the price of it
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because it was expensive it was $100 and that's not cheap to go see a comedy show I mean yeah there was dinner with it but
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I mean it was pasta you know like and again I'm not into food so no but I think that I mean for the lineup and and
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again I think Mike Marino's funny but hundred bucks go see Joe Gorga and little yeah that's you don't know right
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right exactly so the audience there was a little it was very eclectic let's put
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it that way I saw all different types of people all different ages but um Melissa
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was there obviously you know her his wife
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um John Fooda and Rachel Fooda were there the nicest people and Joe Benigno
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Margaret's husband so I met all of them I went up to them I got pictures with them they were all very very nice and
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listen like I guess they have to be yeah you know you're in Jersey absolutely
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you're in Jersey you have to be nice to people in New Jersey yeah but I will tell you this Rachel and Melissa in
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person are stunning are they little they are tiny in every way but you're not
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super tall so no I'm short were they shorter than you well they all have heels on right they all have heels on so
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they appear to be taller than me in every picture and that's the thing so I took some pictures with them and by the
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way I really did not plan out my outfit I don't know what I was thinking it was you no but it was a rainy it was a rainy
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miserable day and it was just a big fashion flop but that's all right that's all right we get through it so I had on
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like an orange kind of pumpkiny fall thing it's October yeah no it is I should have went with the basic black
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it's always Cher it's always Cher and I know that but whatever they were very
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tall and very thin and their makeup was perfection flawless I mean I honestly
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they have Glam that's right they do have Glam but I I can't imagine seriously L because I saw them
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up close I mean I was standing there talking to them we were hugging I told them about the podcast I hope that they'll listen I would love for them to
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come on I'd love to chat with them how old are they well Melissa's in her 40s
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and Rachel's young Rachel's um she's probably mid-30s I would say yeah yeah
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you know my 30s my 40s I had great skin too I I don't know I mean they looked they look like porcelain dolls yeah I
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mean seriously like they must have an airbrush I don't know airbrush I mean I didn't see any
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pores on anyone's faces there was no pores they were beautiful and listen but they've made some dough I'm sure they've
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not I'm not saying oh sh bu surg but I'm sure they've gotten some kickass continu
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faal me Melissa's had a nose job I don't know about Rachel if she's had a nose job or not yeah because that was
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probably oh right oh yes yes yes Rachel so they both have had nose jobs but then I got a picture with Joe Benigno and
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John Fooda together and the funny thing is like I'm about the same height as them which I think is very funny because
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if you look at the other pictures with um Rachel and Melissa they they appear to be much taller than me but I really
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think it's because they had heels on but it's just funny you know these guys are they're they're not big guys they're
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really not and Joe gorg is not a big guy either no I you know my sister and my mom work at Costco and I remember when
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Melissa and Joe first came on the show before anybody knew who they were they were coming to their shorehouse in Tom's
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river and they would go to Brick Costco now they don't anymore because everybody knows who they are but at the time you could still go Rosie would go Rosie
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Perry and um somebody who worked there I forget when I asked them I was like oh
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my gosh you met Joe Gorga and they were like he's so little he is little like
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compared to them you know right right right well there but he's you know such a nice guy he's super handsome right
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so Joe gets on he's the last one he's the headliner oh oh now this is the
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reason he's the headliner because I listened to Melissa's podcast where Joe was on and Mike Marina was on and Mike is like listen he needs to be the
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headliner because it's hard to follow him because a lot of people come out because they're housewife fans right so
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they come out just because they're housewife fans so they might leave when he's done they might leave when he's
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done but I'll tell you what happened I watched people leave while he was up oh really he wasn't he wasn't good and
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honestly someone else said that I read online i s i saw people get up and leave while he was on and their faces were a
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gas that it was it was a little bit crude and listen I'm not a prude right
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but it wasn't it just went on and on and on and it was like enough already like
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just enough right that's it's not known where to end it right and then the other you got to be able to end that [ __ ]
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there was a lot of Empty Tables there was a lot of to begin with at the beginning of the night the beginning of
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the night so we had a two a two-seater table a little table and then there was a table right next to us that had like
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eight nobody sat at it then there was another table to the other side of us had like another eight nobody sat at
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them and that was just on our side of the room I don't even know how empty the other side of the room was wow which I
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was surprised you know you would think that in Jersey of all places that they would sell draw a bigger crowd even
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maybe the but maybe their price was wrong maybe their price was wrong you probably you probably lost at least a
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quarter of people due to price I mean we went to see the the husbands in Atlantic City when it was Frank and how much
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should we pay for that I don't think we paid $100 maybe 69 or something maybe you know what I'm saying like that's
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that's a good price that was to see and that was all of them but that was it was all of them it was Frank K Joe
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Bono Joe Gorga and um bill was Bill Aiden there I
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don't think Bill Aiden was there maybe not I don't remember no I don't I think he was there I think it was just the
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three was it just the three I don't think Evan was there either but Jackie was on the show by then so we went to
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the convention yes we had good stuff to eat we went to Costco oh yeah and I had
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to act foolish in the parking lot cuz that's what I like to do we went to Costco to get wine yeah I like to look
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at everybody's cart and see what they got yeah see what it was exciting for me because our Costco doesn't have the
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liquor it's like a separate yeah we were a Gog at the liquor we were so like
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aisles and aisles there was too many choices we were like it wonderful and it was $6 or something
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like $4.99 .9 bottle of like where are you going to
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go wrong with that you're not because it's good penio it's good it's good yeah
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so that was our day so it was nice to uh it was nice to do a first business yeah
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it was yeah it was it was very nice it was hopefully many more to come definitely all right let's get into New
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York yeah we're going to talk about New York we're talking about season 14 thinking about a dip episode 14 I'll
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tell you speaking of season 14 episode 14 as soon as we got out of the car Lor's like I'm going to act like sigh
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because I'm hungry yeah and meanwhile the whole time we're watching sigh she's like pack a snack and I'm thinking myself pack a snack I did I did pack a
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snack and I forgot she was still hungry and I ate still hungry yeah yeah yeah
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okay so season 14 episode 14 season finale season finale thank you yeah so
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it starts out with Aaron and uba meeting up at the bumper cars and she's talking about pet again but I love the bumper
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cars the ice bumper cars it was cute um uba Uber talks about how she's happy
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being alone which is interesting because uh
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she's not she's not aling somebody so um the only person that
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knows about her man she says is Sai right and she says this she has this whole conversation with Aaron which I
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think maybe probably within 24 hours Aaron knew that that was not the case right so that was a little bit strange
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right she also said that if she told Aaron then everyone would know cuz Aaron was like page six yes
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which believable yes believable um then Brinn meets up with Sai and they go to
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Central Park I honestly I love that whole scene I love the whole scene except when when saigh was like you know
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uh Bren and I are you know we have a lot of similarities not exact but a lot of
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similarities it's like oh are you trying to compare yourself to Brin when when anytime Jessel tries to do that you get
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all pissed and now here you are doing it well I think she was talking about
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their moms okay but still she wasn't you know Brit said some pretty
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I mean I I I'm sure it wasn't easy for her to grow up with an alcoholic mother of course not but Brin Bren was actually
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talking about her grandmother brim was talking about her grandmother and sat in a diaper like sat in a diaper for days
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she said I mean you know yeah so we're at brin's brinn's birthday party right
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no no no well we got a lot to go through we're at Central Park where Brin Central Park where Bren is looking for the tree
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oh that she wants to put in I thought that was very sweet sweet and the bench and I was like oh that is so awesome and
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how she said her M I love to feed the Ducks yeah I'm a tree Huger so it been right witha her yeah so I love that I
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love that whole thing with the Weeping Willow and then the Ducks were there yeah and I love that whole that was
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actually I think that was my favorite part of that episode yeah that was nice it was and honestly anytime I really get to know a person in a scene like those
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are the scenes I like I don't need the drama I no I don't even want it I don't want want to look at it I like to get to
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know the people I think women are very interesting and I think our relationships are very interesting and
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we can have very intense relationships and interactions and friendships and
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we're so lucky that we get that a lot of guys don't don't have friends like that
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so that's why I think like the exploitation of It kind of bothers me it's because it's more
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interesting to me to see women that I could relate to that had actual work
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through whatever their things are to be friends and I know that
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they're not friends because they got set up at that but that should be the point of the show right and that's how it
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started like that's how this all started OC right New York jersey at even Atlanta
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like these women knew each other see that's to me that's much more and and
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Deshawn white yeah they were friends they were friends yes well somewhere along way were friends Yes somewhere
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along the way bad behavior took over and and is
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rewarded so then after that then we go to Jessel she's shooting her first campaign for her new e-commerce platform
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which is bringing fashion and accessories out of India I am so excited
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I messaged her and I said I'm so excited we're so excited about your new brand
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yeah we love like clothing from India as an inspiration like we love it and I I said
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I hope you're going to have accessories like I'm so looking forward to it we talked about this today because we were
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in Edison New Jersey and there is a very large Indian
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Community there where we went to our Expo and I always love their clothing
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they there was a little boy today in Costco who had on the most beautiful
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Indian silk shirt maybe he was what how old Kelly three maybe I didn't see him
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oh oh said Kelly oh my God I love his shirt M yeah adorable just but I love
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their that's great that's awesome hopefully she'll hopefully she'll message us back whatever um just put it
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out I like that she was she was shooting it in Jenna's apartment yes I mean how nice is that like women supporting women
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Y and Jenna has said that other people she's let other people use her apartment which is great and then she even helped
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you know she came out and she's like yeah no maybe you point no I I thought that was nice too like she didn't come
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in and start saying you should do this you should do that she just made a couple of adjustments and everybody was
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like oh my God that's so much better yeah they asked her which you know what if you've got her there why not yeah she
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has the experience yeah okay so that was Jessel
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um so let's talk about the Halloween store the costume shop I'm very confused
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what is the weather because saigh was bundled up as if there was a blizzard
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outside and Aaron walked in in shorts H she had shorts on that's
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interesting it was very interesting I'm like what is going on what is the weather I thought the same thing about
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Salt Lake City Salt Lake I was confused too because the Easter Bunny is there and there's snow I was like I don't live
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there okay so we don't know because we don't live there and there was snow everywhere I know we're going to get to
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Salt Lake City but but everybody's walking in in be beautiful floral Easter
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Easter you can wear Easter like with straps like nobody's wearing a jacket and there's snow all over the ground and
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I'm not a big jacket person but when there's snow on the ground rest assured I'm wearing a jacket yeah I thought it was just me I was a little confused no I
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was very confused and it happened in both shows interesting I didn't even notice
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that all right so now we hear Sai say to eron that uba's got a boyfriend yes at
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the at the C when they're looking for their masks right they're they're there looking for The Masks right yeah so then
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I love and she's on camera saying and of course of course that's a stage come on I don't know how stage she was I
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don't think that that was stage because I don't think it was stage because she backtracked right away she did she did
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she she's like oh I shouldn't have said that and even uh she said that right in the moment she's like I'm not this isn't my
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story to tell and then in the confessional she's like as soon as it left my mouth I was like I wish I didn't say that and I feel like you could see
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it on her face yeah you definitely I do think that most things are staged but I don't think that that one was because of
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the way she you could see it in her face and she backtracked right away yeah but then why talk about it
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with because she done what your face at dinner well because there was no camera there there was no camera there was no
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camera there there was no camera there yeah and they thought it was in the circle right it's never in the circle
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ladies everybody's trying to get their yes Apple so then the next scene is
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Jenna in her closet with her son picking out her outfit she's going to wear and I
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love that because honestly I have three boys and Matthew's the one who helps me pick out my outfits yeah not the one I
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wore last week but he was busy he was not he was busy
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he was actually at a show yeah about Bin's dress at her birthday
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Bin's outfit I loved brinn's outfit I loved everything about BR I mean she
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looked amazing she did look amazing why do all these girl see this is what all
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they all got to fight in public and in inappropriate places there's a place to
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have a brawl yeah but this is the thing they think they think they have to do it on
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camera I gu how I thought that it was a little uncomfortable when and I and I
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thought it was the right thing for him to do size husband but the whole conversation felt a little like cringy
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with Uber when he was apologizing I thought it was nice that he apologized because I don't think he meant anything
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by that comment I don't think that was malicious at all but him apologizing was almost even more uncomfortable than him
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saying it in the first place and then supposedly Uber whispered to him it's okay I have somebody yeah which
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obviously he knew he saw his husband right right and weo side didn't keep a secret right exactly
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so but I but it was the right thing to do and it was nice that he did it I think it was just it got to be a little
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too much drama like it just went that little tag overboard the whole night or
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just that story well the the birthday whole thing the whole well so before
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that Jessel and pav are at home and they're talking about like what are they going to do like they're going to the
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party Bin's party and you know Jess was like I'm over it I'm just so over it
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which is really I'm glad that she finally said that I'm over it cuz I felt like when she walked in the party this
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time you could tell she was over it and she walked in and she said hi everyone but she didn't go up to each person and
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say hello and she didn't need to no and then Aaron comes running over you and
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and has the balls to say what did I do what did you do you've been pummeling
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her all season and her husband yeah all season yeah that's what you did
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Aaron yeah no I listen I think that Jessel handled that well she plays both sides I think that brenn wanted her to
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really tell Aaron off and she even kind of came up to her and said like listen you didn't really you didn't really put
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her in her place right and from what I gather because I've listened to brenn on a couple brenn was on um sheena's
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podcast and she was on L's podcast those the only two podcasts she's done mhm does that mean you're ready for another
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drink Lori it does we're getting close we're getting CL we got to finish New York break New York and then we'll go and then we'll take a break okay that
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sounds perfect okay cuz Lor's getting thirstday yeah I'll get like sigh if I if I run out of alcohol I'm
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like so uh she really wanted her to kind of put her in her place and oh what I
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was saying is on the two podcasts that I heard her she's very close with Jessel Bren and Jessel are very close it does
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seem that Brinn Jessel and and Uber are close yes and it also she also said that
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she said from the beginning and I believe this is true Bren said from the beginning Jessel is funny like she knew
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that Jessel was going to be the star of the show even before it started right because she really doesn't care right
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like she really doesn't says oh I don't care I don't care I don't care totally cares but she totally and Aaron totally
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cares right because she then and then Erin's like why are you putting me with sigh because it's been the two of you
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right right and pet and Jess will have a great relationship it's very clear yes anyone see his little travel things I am
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so excited I did you see it absolutely oh my God good for you pet I I I sent
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him a little message I'm so happy you mention the Pringles yes that was a starbody on the plane cuz he showed the
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cavar we have to repost it we're going to repost it on ours so everyone can see haven't seen amazing does everyone
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realized what he was doing absolutely Airlines absolutely I get it yeah we talked about it last week made money he
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did make money made money so good for you he did make money and you know not a
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big flyer I'm very nervous that I have to take to get on an airplane okay I
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have not been on an airplane I've told you guys this right no no 17 years what
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that's kind of like the chaai I can't believe that I didn't know this I went to Disney for my mother's I'm not going
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to give away her age I went to Disney for a big birthday of my mother and my sister's families Terry and Andy and the
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boys drove down Patty and Patty's family and my family flew Joe was in my belly Tess was
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three my niece Gabby screamed the entire flight Tess was three she was two and a
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half she SC Eric was like we don't know
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them but yeah that was the last time I flew okay that's a long time because everywhere we go we drive Drive I've
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been to Florida since then but we've driven I like to fly I'm one of those weird people I don't but but good for
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pet good for good for pet okay so then brenn I think this is weird Okay it's
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her birthday party and she says let's air out our Grievances and leave it here stupidest party game ever I mean Bren
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have wear all these shows do that listen and I'm going to tell you what whoever
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you are out there Mr Producer who decides that that's a good idea it's not
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no because you're right it always starts with somebody saying let's play a game and you know that's the producer proding
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them producer [ __ ] so stop it yeah so then I the next thing I wrote down is
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Sai keeps saying Jessel is a liar and starts yelling at her Jess's not a liar
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and I remember Jess saying what did I lie about and she brings up again the a the air the airfare him flying and there
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was no lie the timing was not it wasn't a lie she said in a few weeks or something but like he's he explained
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when they were at the swayer like I have to wait for it to open up so yes it's
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going to be soon and whatever she said and she didn't say next week I don't she said no she did not she said in the next
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in a few weeks few weeks right but I liked how Jessel calmly says don't yell
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at me like Jessel didn't match sai's energy and I liked that because Sai was acting crazy she listen I'm just going
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to say it she's aggressive and I know you're not supposed to say that she's
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aggressive she she she flips the switch way too quick
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sigh needs to get into some therapy she does because she's got a lot of baggage
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and I feel bad for her that she does have a baggage and I feel bad that however she had to grow up she grew up
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and it's you have a beautiful life don't waste it being I you you got you got
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cornered you got caught you got caught and you lashed out yeah I can't do that
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yeah I didn't like that whole that whole scene she's way too aggressive um I did like though on the
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other hand when Aaron comes out with the parrot I thought it was dumb but but I
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just don't like it kind of broke the ice a little bit it broke the ice a little bit it calmed it down and she was able
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to laugh at herself and you know Jessel laughed at like I don't think she was laughing at herself I think she was
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trying to make fun of Jessel well but it didn't land Aaron so try try harder fly
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harder all right and then Brinn Brinn drops the bombshell to uba I hear you have a man in
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kinetic and then s's like Grand that's effed up no cuz you you don't want
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nobody to say nothing about something don't [ __ ] say it she should if that really slipped out in that costume store
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she should have looked at Aaron in the eye and she should have said now look here you [ __ ] I was not supposed
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to say that and if you ever I'll never [ __ ] talk to you again I'll call you a piece of [ __ ] on on camera from here
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to Kingdom Come she backpedal in that store but then went to a dinner and
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talked about it again y right so how sorry were you right you weren't sorry you were sorry you got caught right yeah
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that's it absolutely all right so we're going to take a quick little break and then we're going to come back and we're going to talk about Salt Lake City and a
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little bit about southern charm yeah see you
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hi I'm Lori I'm Kelly I'm Wendy welcome back we took our little break can you
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guys hear our crickets listen this is our studio SL basement the studio it's the
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studios with a capital T it's working though nobody's busting in on us for
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sure so it's all good yeah I want to show you guys we got some new glasses the we wine whenever glasses coming to
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you soon yes would you guys like we want whenever glass let us know that's a
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Lori okay so before we start about Salt Lake City Kelly's going to talk about
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someone we met today so we met this woman she's an author she's a ghost writer she's a doctor she's a doctor her
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name is Crystal Lee Dr Chrystal Lee this is her book we bought it embrace your
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crown I'm love it and we're going to have her on we're going to have her on I'm going to read read it I'm going to
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take notes because not so much the reading these women like to do I'm going to read it
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read I know you like to read I love to read I'm going to read it I'm going to take notes we're going to talk about it and then we're going to have the doctor
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on to to discuss but she was lovely she was me just says it all absolutely and
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Matt and I even got some lipstick because she does lipstick too and I'm very excited about that because I have a
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lipstick problem yes so we're g to have her on though something she was lovely She Lovely very nice very nice so now
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we're going to talk a little bit about Salt Lake City season 4 episode
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seven Angie is having her Greek Easter party the rabbit in the back of
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Heather's car was the best thing on Bravo in a long time the rabbit everywhere was the best thing on Bravo
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Mary's oh my go reaction St to the
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rabbit I thought the rabbit was funny I loved the rabbit I mean if I ever have
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well I actually do have Easter every year I don't know if I'm going to hire you know what m a bunny there you go and
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let him go to and he would do it he would love it he' be all over it he'll do it he'll do it yeah be one tall
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rabbit yes so then Whitney and Justin go on their little date night I kind of felt bad for them well
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why is he not wearing his ring why is this ring in the drawer listen there there are men out there who don't wear
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wedding rings my father um didn't wear a wedding ring for a long time because my
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father had a big box truck and he was working and when you work with your hands one time he went to jump out of
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his box truck and his ring got caught his finger almost got ripped off ripped off he doesn't wear he never wore a ring
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after that my parents did get divorced so that was a Prelude to what was to
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come but anyway some men don't wear wedding rings that's okay but he was a guy who did wear one and now he's not
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and that's caused for concern I will tell you that actually my father did not wear a wedding ring either and my my
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parents were married for 63 years before my father passed and he did not wear a wedding ring because he would get a he
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he had like a rash on his finger not from the ring but it would just yeah it just some people little skinners just s
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right it just didn't comfortable this is the point of a marriage if your husband
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is not digging wearing his ring and it bothers you you tell him right get on my [ __ ] nerves you're not wearing the
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ring right and then he'll say oh it does this it does that or whatever and and then you [ __ ] move on you or he wears
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the ring right what I got to go to wedding ring story too but you go for okay so my husband wears his wedding
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ring every day he wears his he does and he works he kind of like works out in the field like he's a you know a manual
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laborer he does work out in the field but he has always said to my kids that
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his ring has superpowers he he tells him this and he said this since they were very young if
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mommy says no I can use my ring because it has superpowers and it will override
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whatever mommy says and I'm not have you met me did fall and hit his head I mean
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what the [ __ ] you talking about but the kids are like I've got Daddy's ring and it's got superpowers and I'm like yeah
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but now they're old enough to know that yeah there there's no superpowers there's no superpowers right there's no
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wonder woman with the Cuffs right there's no but I will tell you that I don't wear my wedding ring or my
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engagement ring because they are too big and they will fall off and I did have a guard on them for a while and the guard
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broke and I already had them made bigger because they were too small and then I gained weight and I lost weight and now
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I've gained weight again but they're still too big and I just don't want to make that commitment until I could figure out what is going to be right and
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I don't want to lose them my my rings are too small for me because I have gained a lot of weight so but I am going to get mine resized I love my engagement
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rank I love it I'm miss wearing it I had mine made bigger too like I said I had it made bigger and then I lost weight
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and then it was too big and then I'm like do I get it made smaller cuz I now I gain weight back but it Stills too big
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I have um I have guards that I bought like all different sizes if you want to try some and they're in strips like this
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so you can cut them to the certain size okay I definitely will because my actual wedding band is is my grandmother's oh
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so of course you want to wear that it's my grandmother's and it's the one that she had when she got married so you know
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it and I can't imagine like because what what has prevented me from doing this so far is I don't want to drop my
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engagement ring off somewhere and leave it oh but you can do it up listen there's a jeweler in town that we use
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all the time and we love him jewelry absolutely exactly and I he's very trustworthy and I know that but just
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doing that is you know makes me a little anxious about it so I don't know I don't know what I think about their
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relationship Heather and her no no Justin and Whitney yeah Whitney I know
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where it's Heather I don't know Heather so Justin and Whitney so listen well Justin's a lot older he was married when
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she met him she worked as a secretary in his well I'm sorry I don't know if she was a secretary don't think there's anything wrong with that she worked for
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at his office she worked for him in his office and he was married and she went
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into his office and said we have a problem because I think I'm falling in love with you so
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either I quit or you know we got to figure this out
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and he was like well then we need to figure this out because he was falling in love with her too but he was married
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so that's how they got together and that's why she's worried because now he's back at work and he's not wearing
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his wedding rings so she's afraid and I I get it I get it I'd be you know yeah
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you what is it you you lose them like you get them ex lose them like you get them you lose them like you get them yeah which hopefully isn't the case but
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really why isn't he wearing his ring all of a sudden right no that's odd I I agree that that's odd unless he's gained
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weight like the rest of us and it doesn't fit but I feel like she'd know that but I think that once they had the dinner and she explained how it bothered
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her I think he's going to wear the ring I mean I think he kind of hurt her which
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how about him saying I don't want to always be the one to initiate sex right like
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but broh brh why you saying it on the TV why are you saying it on the TV and
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she's got young kids like it's [ __ ] hard you're going every day like my
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kid's an adult and still lives at home and it's hard it's so hard like I have like two three exha I'm sorry life is
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exhausting so just cut her some slack listen if you're initiating it and she's
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not saying no take that as a win yes definitely take as a win like okay so
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you have to initiate it okay like but as long as she's not like get the [ __ ] out of here right yeah but has a win but she
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also says listen and I I can't agree with this more like if you're not in a good head space sure if you're not in a
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good head space like you're not going to want to initiate anything no about you
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not wearing your ring she's not going to feel completely this is this is a woman's side of it yeah any men who are
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possibly ever listening right at that point if if you're not in
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the right head space you're just somebody else in my life who wants to [ __ ] climb on board right literally
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literally and you're just like you know what no right right cuz that's what it
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comes down to yeah yeah I don't know any other better way to emotional for us
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it's emotional and I'm sure there's a lot of men out there that it's emotional for to no no
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no it absolutely is there it absolutely is that's how maybe not Aran yeah I
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think that but that's how they it's a primordial thing that's how
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they convey love like that's how they it's it's a thing for them we all have
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different Love Languages right and I'm not saying I'm not talking about the [ __ ] boy I'm talking about wait where
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did that come from we're talking talking about your husband saying not talking about you know I'm just saying the guy you take
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home at the end of the night of but it does it does have when you were in your 20s a lot to do with them right not
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today yeah well not for us unfortunately so
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sorry some people our AG might be doing that and God bless yeah no not not us
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God bless but not us let's move on from Justin Whitney okay did you see the way Mary's dog looked at her wait how do we
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get oh yeah the dog was like all right okay wait before we get there Lisa and Angie going to make
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candles oh you know what I don't even that was so boring to me I didn't even write a note about it listen what what
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struck me about the whole thing is once again Lisa made it about her always because the girl that works there goes
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up to Lisa like oh I know Jack I know your son he's she's like did you know he was going on a mission before I did
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she's like yes I did well the girl should have been smart enough to lie that was all that that was
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that was produced that was 100% produced right so then they talk about inviting
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Monica and and Angie is really rethinking inviting her to the Greek Easter you should have thought about
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that harder Angie yeah because we we'll get to that what happened there right we'll get to
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that then now we can get to Mary at her house did you see the way her even her dog looks at her like you're you're
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[ __ ] crazy you're nuts I um there was somebody put up a post about her Green
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carpet in her living room and they were like I smell that mus from here that I
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said it's like the 80s wall toall musty I would imagine that was her
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grandmother's home when her grandmother was Al I would think so too oh that's weird that caret it's got to be that car
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house yeah that carpet's definitely from so her grandmother passed and she moved in listen I honestly feel bad for Mary
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because why she chose this there was no gun put to her head she doesn't speak to
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her mother right because her mother thought it should be her right but think
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about that for a minute the the the greed in this family the dollar sign
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that's all they see is dollar signs they're not thinking straight the
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mother isn't upset any of these shes the mother isn't upset that her daughter
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who's probably 40 years younger than the man she's married to married her mother's widower her
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mother's not upset at that her mother's upset that it wasn't her right like
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that's some that's some deep [ __ ] there I I mean I think Mary is I I I kind of
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feel bad for her because I think that and I and I feel bad saying this because we are all Christians it's it it's a bad
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look for Christians oh it's definitely a bad look for it's a bad look for anybody
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agree yeah agree anybody yeah yeah yeah agree so that was that was kind of cooky and then her son's married come on her
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son's married she doesn't know come on I mean they live in the same house does does a does a chick live there too yes
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but that's what I mean so think so think about that so she doesn't even and listen I'm not saying this because I
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think I have Stellar relationships with my children at this point no but you're going per has to be this big person in
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the church with all these high morals but then your son who's not married is living in your house with his girlfriend
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no he is married I know but she didn't know that but you don't know like you
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don't even have that relationship with your kid to be like you understand for him to come to
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you and say Ma I got married today even if he thought she was going to blow up about it he didn't do it no it's not
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even that listen Robert Jr's 20 years old he said he's been married almost a
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year that means he was 19 right she said that she saw them get all dressed up and
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run out of the house like run Sprint out of the house which is probably the day they went to the courthouse to get
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married so that was almost a year ago and now you're asking the question like
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that's what's weird to me yeah like I listen I have three sons one who's soon
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to be 21 but he's 20 now one who's 19 and one who is 16 and a half I live with
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my sons obviously I see them every day I look in their eyes I can tell the second
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I walk in the house if something is going on at 100% tell oh we were
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supposed to play a drinking game tonight time somebody says 100% we were supposed to drink who said that well I already
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but listen we're going to drink anyway drink already done take but I tell yes you are right you
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can absolutely tell whether they're going to talk talk to you about it or not is a different story right but I know when something is off yeah and I I
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know when something's off and there's going to be a conversation don't want to talk to me about everything going on in
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their life Joe obviously I know and I'm still going to ask I'm still going to
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ask and I'm going to prod I'm GNA do it that's what I do that's what we do Ian
49:17
but everybody just was so why they got to fight at the family party though okay
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so wait we didn't get there yet we didn't get there yet you keep you
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skip over I know all right so Heather talk about what she wants to talk about Heather's on FaceTime with her daughter
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Ashley talking about Jack and the mission who was just her her daughter was just on spring break in Cabo she's
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got to let it go and she tells she tells her that Jack is going and she's you know very surprised that
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Jack is going on the mission um and Heather says she feels
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sick inside I get I get what Heather is is saying but Heather needs to let it go it
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is not her son it's not she needs to let it go and who knows from when Heather went on her mission to Jack going on his
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mission now how that has changed right it's got to be 20 years since Heather
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went on a mission so it's totally different things could have changed 30 years okay so things could years
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tremendously since she's been there but the bottom line is she needs to let it go and mind her own damn business this
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kid obvious ly feels a calling let him go I will I will say though it's just little strange to me
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that he has not read the book of Mormon absolutely and he's going on this Mission you definitely should have read that you read the Bible front to back
50:38
I've not but I'm not going on the mission I know I'm not going on a mission and I was listening to um Lala's
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podcast about this because Lala is from Utah and her brother they're both on the podcast together they're both from Utah
50:52
yeah and they grew up there so they know people they know people as a matter of fact her brother um and I like him I
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like their I like their Dynamic together listen to that yeah I like their Dynamic but her brother was saying one about the whole rumor about Angie's husband he
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said listen if this was true I would have heard it because Salt Lake is a small town I would have known about it
51:12
saying that glad he said that I know people that still live there and if this was true I would have heard this rumor
51:18
and I did not hear this rumor interesting but what he also said is when I was growing up I know people who
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went on these missions friends of mine that I grew up with went on these missions and they read the book of
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Mormon not one or two or three times they read the book of Mormon many times before they went on the mission wow
51:36
because you want to know what it is you're doing well you're out there selling you better know what the kind of
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girls C cookies you selling that's right that's right so that is what I you need to know all the flavors yeah that is
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what I find to be a little bit strange is that listen I'm not saying he actually said he didn't read it he said
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he didn't read it cuz Lisa asked him did you read it he's like well I didn't read it yet but I'm going to now Lisa also
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admitted she's never read it which is fine like like you said to me I've never read the whole Bible I've not read the
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whole Bible but I didn't realize that like I didn't what but I'm not going to preach the Bible I'm not going if I was
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going to preach the Bible or if I was going to teach the Bible I would or go
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knock on doors and try to you know if you're going to go out and sell the Girl
52:23
Scout cookies you need to know what's in you better know the flavors yeah yeah
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that's so that's that's what I'm saying I just think that that's a little strange and I'm not judging listen no I
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I applaud him for making this decision absolutely like I said I think it's sad that Lisa is so upset about it I do
52:41
understand it but he's not going to rehab he's not there's so many worse things that could be happening
52:48
absolutely but I think that the bottom line and I think that the thing that kind of Heather maybe is maybe where the
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head space she's coming from is she doesn't feel that he's really prepared
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prepared and she doesn't think Lisa is prepared either no because because he didn't read the book of Mormon has he
53:07
talked to people who have gone recently you know maybe it's not what teachings
53:12
in the Book of Mormon are so extreme maybe there are things that that that are you really need to know what you're
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selling right and you know maybe Heather's point is you know no it's not going to be like 30 years ago I went but
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have has he talked to anybody he didn't even know he was [ __ ] going has he talked to anybody that's recently been
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like does he really know what he's getting into right because yes as a
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Christian it's always awesome when other people are spreading the word of God but
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you better know what's in that book yeah yeah because there's a lot of you better
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know what's in in whatever book Jud whatever book that you're paddling whatever product you're selling you
53:56
better know your product and I think kind of maybe that's where Heather's I agree I agree and that's kind of where I
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was at with this whole thing like I listen you go do you yeah and but if
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he's not doing a bad thing right and that's what and and if people aren't if you can feel when people aren't
54:13
receptive to what you got to say right or you are and I understand why Lisa is not telling Heather because Heather's
54:19
going to preach to her she's obviously she's obviously got a lot of opinions about it and sometimes when your kids
54:25
make decisions for themselves and you have nothing to do about it and you have no control over it you don't want to hear somebody in your ear like it's like
54:32
all right but that was his decision to make What the fu you want me to do about it so you know I can't dead kind yeah
54:40
exactly so just be supportive as my friend that's all yeah why all right I don't know if I'm jumping but Angie
54:47
brought a priest around these women okay wait no we you are jumping wait we're going to get there because the next
54:52
thing that happens when a priest in that house the next thing that happens is that Meredith shows up at Mary's house I
54:58
mean am I the only one that thinks that is the biggest phonus relationship ever I was I never watched it this I didn't
55:04
even take I was so bored Mar shows up at Mary's house and Mary tells her about
55:10
the conversation with her son and his marital status which okay I get that but Mary doesn't want to talk about it I get
55:16
course not because it's not about her no it is about her but it's it's not positive about her Mary doesn't want to
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talk about it oh Mary doesn't I said no no Mary didn't want to talk about it Mary did not want to talk about it but
55:29
Mary uh Meredith is maintaining that she's not spreading the rumors that's what she's maintaining about the whole
55:35
thing with Angie K and Monica Meredith is still maintaining she's not spreading
55:40
the rumors we need somebody with receipts and maybe it's Jen in jail
55:47
somebody needs to come out and say that Meredith said it well listen CU I think Meredith did say it it might not be on
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camera we don't have it on camera then Mary asks Meredith were you are you going to the Easter party at Angie's
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house and then Meredith says well I wasn't invited she wasn't invited that's right and she's not and she's not going anywhere why would you even assume that
56:07
she was going after all that Brew she should have pulled she should have pulled an Angie and just shown up well
56:13
but no she was going to the Glad Awards oh that's right because she was she was part of planning that she was on the Glad Awards committee so she was going
56:19
to be out of town at the Glad Awards right and then Mary says well if you're not going to be there then I'm not going
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right right so then the day of the party Mary already knew she wasn't going the
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day of the party Mary feels the need to call Ang listen I'm glad that she called to cancel but why do you need to wait
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till the day when she's got everything set up she's got all the tables everything set up and now you're calling cancel you knew you weren't going right
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and she comes up with this story that well my house in where was her house in Vegas Las Vegas where her husband's been
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right had had a flood in it a year ago a year ago yeah she should have just
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left it as it had a flood in it right a year ago okay and now just say you
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stomachs exactly just say I just tested positive for Co if we've learned nothing
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in the past three years or four years it is co will get you out of [ __ ] because
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nobody wants you around yes I tested positive there you go that that would work too I thought you I thought you
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were telling me that right now I was like oh oh no no no but when she comes up with that
57:26
I was like oh and then Angie's like I'm so disappointed I was really looking forward to yeah it's all [ __ ] Mary
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is the most awkward person in this entire realm yes she's awkward she's totally awkward she never I mean I'm and
57:41
I don't I'm not trying to sound mean but she never kind of fit in she never fit in she's very awkward but I will money I
57:48
will say she is a bit of comic relief absolutely that's why she's there take and I'll take it I will I will take the
57:54
little bit of comic Rel because there's not there's not a lot there's not a lot okay now you can talk about father
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George I mean father George I mean I know it's an Easter celebration and clearly this is a religious event but I
58:08
don't know if I would have actually had my priest I don't know if I would invite Father Brian to a function where I'm pretty
58:17
sure people are going to be thrown down no no maybe not physically but at least with their words he was just so inap but
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I think he left at that I think he had left I do think that they showed but you know when they get into all that arguing
58:32
and like stupid [ __ ] at somebody's house when it's inappropriate then you know
58:38
what I'm like you know what no yeah but Monica does seem and we said we've said
58:44
this before she is like a Jersey girl like it doesn't take much yeah and
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whatever little bit Angie said that was enough to set her
58:56
off the problem was that then her mother came over right and maybe her mother was
59:02
trying to diffuse the situation but it doesn't seem like they have the relationship where no she's the one
59:08
that's going to diffuse the situation it probably should have been somebody else that's where the problem lies is that her mother I think her mother was trying
59:14
to butt in and be a mom when she probably hasn't really been a mom for
59:20
most of Monica's life and now all a sudden oh now you want the [ __ ] now you want to be mom like you see the [ __ ]
59:27
they're saying about each other on not on Twitter I mean Instagram they need they need some
59:35
serious counseling or like she begged me to be on the show the mother said she beg me to be on the show or again is and
59:44
all I have to do is cook and speak Portuguese that's what her mother said or is that some produced [ __ ] I I
59:50
don't know I don't think it is I don't think it is I think it's sad I think get sad and I did not realize that she is
59:57
her only child oh I didn't realize that until her mother said that
1:00:02
um it might have been it her mother said do you think I would do this to my only
1:00:07
child like it's her only child here's the thing about parenting though and I
1:00:13
know you guys are the same way when I realize I've made a mistake or and I realize like when I look at my kids and
1:00:19
I look at some of the things they go through and I can see things that I've done in my past that could have
1:00:24
contributed to how they are I admit it and I talk to them about it and I have
1:00:30
both of them about different things this woman does not seem to have any self-awareness at all I don't know what
1:00:38
happened with her growing up but something happened where you got to a point where you now have this relationship so you both kind of need to
1:00:45
se self-reflect and and see what could have contributed and work it out and I and I
1:00:52
do that I know but I think the problem is that Monica is trying to be the best
1:00:59
mom that she can be for her four daughters and her daughters are young and it does and the daughters seem
1:01:05
Wonderful by the way I mean I think they're from ages four or five up to 17 so she's got she's got a big range of
1:01:11
daughters and she is trying to be the mother that she didn't have yeah so it
1:01:17
is hard for her and I get that for her to say like listen I'm going to go mend
1:01:22
this with my mother when her mother really isn't even admitting anything
1:01:27
right right but then then what happens on the back end though is your kids see you acting like that right so where you
1:01:34
going with it anyway clearly has a relationship with her mother where they talk to each other the way they talk to each other and that's okay behind closed
1:01:42
doors but once you bring that out into public on National Television listen I'm not proud of some of the conversations I
1:01:48
have with one of my kids yeah and I would hate for that to be out in public right you know so it's just a whole it's
1:01:54
it's bad it's not you know I'll pray for them because they need it's sad it's sad for the kids AR there a lot but aren't
1:02:02
there isn't there a lot of this in this whole Bravo spear absolutely but most
1:02:08
people hide it she's not hiding it Monica and the issue is that there was
1:02:14
kids there was a lot of kids it wasn't just her kids there was a lot of kids there kids it's like and apparently she
1:02:20
threw a shoe right at someone at a and it almost hit somebody two or threey old
1:02:25
face like I mean listen no get it together right need to get need to you
1:02:31
need to get it and I like I do like Monica I do I like her and I want to like her I want her I want her to come
1:02:38
through this I want her to Rise Above This and I want her to kind of be that breakout yeah I she's got to stop on the
1:02:44
social media though and she's got to maybe like maybe she doesn't have her mom on anymore because maybe it's too
1:02:50
toxic well I don't I don't foresee her I mean unless something major happens
1:02:55
did you catch when um when Lisa was talking and Heather was saying is she talking about herself as if she's Jesus
1:03:02
and then she says Brutus instead of Judas yes she's like oh no that was Caesar that's great because when I heard
1:03:10
it I'm like no she didn't she did not mean Brutus she meant Judas right and then she said it I'm like okay yeah yeah
1:03:15
yeah but then did you see where Heather went up to Lisa to talked to Lisa that she said listen I heard you were upset
1:03:20
with me because I had um Angie over to my house yeah and you know I'm glad that
1:03:28
she did have that bit of the conversation yeah but then she had to go bring up about Jack again exactly
1:03:34
exactly like you didn't have to bring up Jack just bring up you and Angie you and Angie went to high school together you
1:03:39
have your own history like you know the kids shouldn't be brought into it cuz she didn't bring your kids into it yeah
1:03:47
yeah I think that's it for salt lakeer right how what about so I was told to to
1:03:52
look into this whole J thing and I did okay okay did J and I
1:03:59
listened to a little bit of her interview people ask me to do it and I did who what people you people I did oh
1:04:06
my sister-in-law asked me to look and I and I I listened to the two and a half hour podcast you listen to the whole
1:04:12
thing I did between Jada and I asked you both to do it and I it was between Jada
1:04:18
and oh what's his name Hoda oh no oh what sent us no I sent it to you guys it
1:04:25
was J yes I watched that no I listened it was a listen oh no he does have a video too I did yeah it was a video J J
1:04:31
Shadel yeah I was a video I watch I listened I listened to it I didn't I admittedly didn't watch it cuz I
1:04:37
listened to it while I'm driving watch did she really say I never wanted to marry will and he
1:04:43
knew that no I I didn't hear that never heard that and I watched that I watched
1:04:49
the Huda and H what whatever and I watched um hook yeah hookah and Chelsea
1:04:57
Handler she was on Chelsea Handler I watched I so I watched three okay what
1:05:02
did you get what did you get from that my takeaway cuz you know I don't know all about this celebrity no but I mean I
1:05:10
mean I know about the slap and whatever yeah right my takeaway
1:05:15
is that she grew up in a really rough
1:05:22
situation both of her parents were drug ass I think so okay she met Tupac at a very young age
1:05:31
did they they went to high school together right like a performing arts school they were they were very close as
1:05:37
friends right never got involved he did ask her to marry him but as he was in
1:05:43
jail it was never really she didn't have rtic feelings for him she was his Rock he was her rock it was one of those
1:05:49
situations where he was probably one of her very first best friends she was
1:05:56
probably he was probably her first
1:06:02
male functioning reliable relationship got it because she didn't have that with
1:06:08
her own father have and she didn't have a brother no so that's what I got from that as far as the Tupac situation then
1:06:16
I think she met well they both became famous they married when they were young
1:06:24
are both from come from like a [ __ ] up place that they needed therapy a long
1:06:30
time ago the both of them as individuals I don't know his backround I know he grew up in Philly but I and then
1:06:36
all of a sudden they had all this Fame they got married before they were famous though they were together before they
1:06:43
were both right famous and then they had kids they've been together that long they've been together that long they' been yes then they had kids and then all
1:06:50
of a sudden I think for Jada it was like oh
1:06:57
[ __ ] I'm rich I'm fine I'm successful
1:07:03
I'm married to a man who loves me I have beautiful children I am so
1:07:10
cripplingly unhappy because she finally got to a place where she had all the things that
1:07:17
she didn't have to worry about all those things anymore and all of a sudden she realized how [ __ ] up she was that she
1:07:23
didn't didn't know who she was and that and I think you know and
1:07:30
then her and will separated and then I think she was trying to get to know
1:07:38
herself had a little something something with one of her son's friends while her
1:07:43
and will were separated the red table talk it was part
1:07:48
of her therapy she wanted to come out and talk about it she said she she says
1:07:56
will will said you know what you don't need to do that alone I'm going to come on with you right and that they have
1:08:03
decided that they're going to work on their marriage and that even though she cheated on them they're they're still
1:08:10
going to be married they're still they're going to do whatever they have to do to work on themselves and be
1:08:18
a couple and Jada's whole thing is you know what everybody already [ __ ] thinks the worst so I don't really care
1:08:25
what other people think and she don't care and you know what you shouldn't [ __ ] care you know what she gives a [ __ ]
1:08:31
about this is a different spin than I she gives a [ __ ] about her kids and she gives a [ __ ] about her marriage and I
1:08:37
think it's totally different than what everybody else thinks it is I thought I thought it was much different I'm not
1:08:43
going to lie I'm I'm going to read his not totally sold on her and her book and then I'm going to and then I'm going to
1:08:49
say that was my because I'll tell you what I watched it live with the whole slap and he was laughing and then he did
1:08:57
look over at her and she did give him a look so and that is when she got a when no no no no so she talks about that in
1:09:04
the interview so the reason she gave him the look is because she has a history
1:09:10
with Chris Rock they've been friends for a long time okay and they had a bit of a falling
1:09:15
out and when they got there she was there as family she wasn't there as
1:09:22
Will's wife but the world did not know that exactly but no no no no let me tell you the world did not know that and when
1:09:29
she saw Chris Rock up there and they locked eyes she said to will he's going
1:09:36
to come for me she knew that Chris Rock was going to come for her and when he
1:09:41
made that joke she nodded at him like I told you this was going to
1:09:48
happen and that's why she gave him that look and it was because she predicted it
1:09:56
prior to it happening and when she gave him that look he felt
1:10:03
like okay you're here you the world thinks you are my wife you are my woman
1:10:10
the world thinks you're my woman you are my family anyway and I love you but see I heard a different I heard her say
1:10:16
something different I heard her say I heard her say I thought it was a skit
1:10:22
because when he said keep my wife's name out your mouth she thought wife why is
1:10:28
he calling me his wife we've been separated for years but that is what that is what she said though she was
1:10:34
surprised that he went up there and said that because knew because Chris Rock knew Chris she said to will prior to
1:10:42
Chris Rock saying anything he's GNA come for me and when when when will went up
1:10:49
there and said keep my wife's name out your mouth she was surprised to hear hear that because she wasn't his
1:10:57
wife that's what she was surprised about and she knew that it was going to happen
1:11:03
and when she gave him that nod it was that look I told you this was I told you
1:11:09
it was going to happen I 100% believe everything she said that being said I
1:11:15
listened to two and a half hours of it she is very wordy she speaks a lot of
1:11:20
words well this is what I this is what I this words this is also my opinion I
1:11:26
think that at this point she has almost gone too deep into herself I agree she's gone too she's
1:11:34
gone a little too deep but I think that she'll come out of that also I kind of felt the thing with
1:11:41
Will with the slap I think it was almost to like a
1:11:47
reaction from will because she said look at this point they were both in really
1:11:54
intensive couples therapy she and will together she and will together they are
1:12:00
separated but they're in very intensive couples therapy and that will
1:12:06
was really not in a good place okay so he was going through a lot he had just
1:12:12
done that move what some kind of movie and it like triggered stuff for him and this stuff was all coming out did say
1:12:19
that there was a movie that he had yes he had just finished and it was just this really intensive time for him and they
1:12:26
were in this therapy and maybe something in him just like she
1:12:33
said that she felt that he reacted to that statement with Chris Rock totally
1:12:39
it was not him right it was not like an had a body experience it yeah it was I
1:12:44
mean I think the world thought that it was a skit at one point I mean I I watched it I was like the [ __ ] is going
1:12:50
on right she said there's no way these guys can't be friend like you know and they must be friendly like going that
1:12:58
Chris Rock came off the stage during the break and looked Jada in the eye and
1:13:03
said I meant no harm and Jada said Jada knew but she was just her concern was
1:13:09
for because it was so out of his character whack for H like Chris Rock
1:13:15
didn't say any first of all I don't even think she listen I don't think it was anything to do with what Chris Rock said
1:13:21
I think it was will stay physically she does not look like she has alopecia alopecia no no no no no no
1:13:29
she explained this there's different types of ala some people have total hair
1:13:35
loss she said I have hair now but this shit'll fall out have my eyebrow will fall off and then the shit'll grow back
1:13:42
yes yes yes and that's another thing why she was so upset that Chris Rock said
1:13:47
something because she kept thinking of all the people that she's been involved with through having alopecia that really
1:13:56
feel horrible that they have no hair and so all right it was just yeah it was
1:14:04
just quite amazing this conversation is way different than I thought you thought it was going to be yeah you have to
1:14:11
listen to it it was just very it was interesting you know what maybe it's [ __ ] Sheen to it absolutely she
1:14:16
follows [ __ ] okay can I just say two things about TOs and a PO yes please do
1:14:21
before we log off no we didn't do Southern Charm oh God it's late it's
1:14:27
late okay uh two te's in a pot Tamara is talking about
1:14:33
Sai totally defending her actions and at one point says you're
1:14:40
welcome because as if she set the stage for saigh to be as messy as she is well
1:14:47
and I don't even I only know what I know about this person via social media media
1:14:53
cuz I don't watch it right but that's of no surprise to me I mean it's bad behavior and bad behavor she so she's
1:14:59
such a [ __ ] narcissist it's ridiculous bad behavior and bad behavior it's so
1:15:05
ridiculous um and then they said they did say that Jenna L said she wasn't going to bravocon no she's not and Bin
1:15:12
said that said that too brin's trying to talk her into going but she's not as of now she so she's definitely not coming
1:15:19
back to New York she doesn't need to come back she didn't need to be there to begin with no she didn't need to be
1:15:25
there to begin with I mean if you don't want to talk about southern charm tonight we don't have to but we could talk about a couple of things because
1:15:31
poor wait listen this is this is just the this is Olivia's brother yes and I
1:15:36
had I had no idea you didn't know no I thought you knew because you watched the
1:15:41
show I had no idea okay
1:15:48
I what you want to minutes well listen all we can say is that we send Olivia
1:15:55
our prayers I think she handled it I mean I don't they don't even I mean I
1:16:01
know they said limes disease but typically people don't die from limes disease what limes disease they didn't say limes disease yes they did oh so
1:16:09
they said limes disease yeah he struggled oh wait maybe they didn't say it I looked it up he has struggled with
1:16:15
lime's disease for years and it was debilitating so we don't know the exact cause and we don't need to know the
1:16:21
exact cause we pray for her and her family but I didn't know that Austin lost a sibling oh
1:16:27
yeah yeah Austin had an older sister I believe she was older Kyle was her name
1:16:33
and it was I I want to say a skiing accident it was some kind of accident she was very
1:16:41
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